Calming Anxiety
Sleep Affirmations — Let Go of Worry, Calm Racing Thoughts & Drift Off Peacefully
Can't sleep because your mind gets louder the moment the world goes quiet? The lights go out, the house settles, and suddenly your thoughts begin racing: everything you didn't get done today, everything you need to do tomorrow, a conversation you keep replaying. You're tired and you want sleep, but your mind seems determined to stay awake. This guided sleep meditation helps you let go of worry, calm racing thoughts and use positive sleep affirmations to feel comfortable simply resting.
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Have you ever noticed how your mind seems to get louder the moment the world becomes quiet? The lights go out, the house settles. You finally climb into bed after a long day and suddenly your thoughts begin racing. Everything you didn't get done today, everything you need to do tomorrow.
A conversation you keep replaying. Or perhaps, that familiar feeling of worry, even when you can't quite explain what you're worrying about. You're tired, you want sleep, but your mind seems determined to stay awake. If that sounds familiar, these next few minutes are just for you.
Welcome to Calming Anxiety. I'm Martin and tonight we're going to gently let go of worry, calm racing thoughts and use positive sleep affirmations to help you feel more comfy with resting. You don't have to force yourself to sleep. You don't have to make your mind completely quiet.
You certainly don't have to stay awake until the end of this meditation. If you'd like longer sleep sessions, in my app, Anchored there's a whole selection of them all under one tap for sleep. There's a night time with them and there's an ambient night light as well, to drift off, so calm and serenely. You'll find the link in the show notes whenever you need it.
So let's breathe. Make your head comfy on the pillow. Feel the mattress supporting your shoulders, your back, your hips and your legs. You don't need to hold yourself up.
You don't need to support anything. These next few minutes allow the bed to do that for you. Let your shoulders soften. Unclench your jaw.
Relax your hands. Now simply breathe. Feel your belly and your chest rise. Be mindful of the moment between the in and the outrout.
And then with every exhalation, tune in completely to that sense of unwinding of release.
As all the small muscle fibres in and around your chest, they unwind and lengthen.
Slow breathing, comfy and a tease. Feel the in breath, hold, relax and release, softly through the mouth.
And if you can, just making the out breath a little longer than the in breath. Breathe in, home and wind and release.
Imagine that feeling of relaxation around your ribcage and shoulders, growing stronger with every out breath. A wonder then. If you could imagine it cascading outwards down through your belly, your hips and legs, down your shoulders, your arm, to the fingertips. Every out breath, just allowing yourself to drift a little deeper into a relaxed state, mindful and physical.
Now allow your breathing to find whatever rhythm it wants. As you rest here, I'd like you to imagine something. Picture yourself standing outside your bedroom door at the end of a long day. You're carrying everything that happened.
All the things you've done, all the things you haven't finished. The conversations, the responsibilities, the worries and the plans for tomorrow. Imagine that all. All gathered into one bag that you're holding.
Feel the weight of it. But tonight, there's no need to bring that bag into the bedroom with you. Imagine gently placing it beside the bedroom door. You haven't thrown anything away.
You haven't forgotten anything important. You simply put it down until tomorrow. The worries, the to-do's, they can all wait. Now imagine stepping into your bedroom.
The light soft, the room peaceful and the bed waiting for you. You climb beneath the covers, feel a gentle warmth around you, the softness of your pillow, the weight of the dovet. And you allow yourself to release whatever tension they want. You let your shoulders sink a little more deeply into the bed.
Your arms become heavy, your hands soft, your forehead, your eye. There is nothing to hold on to, nothing to prepare for. Just to be able to listen to these five gentle sleep affirmations. You don't need to repeat them out loud.
You don't even need to remember them. Simply allow the words to drift through your awareness. To listen to formlessly. The day is finished and I have done enough.
I can put my worries down and return to them tomorrow if I need to.
In this moment I can allow myself to feel comfortable and supported.
My body can rest even when my mind is still settling.
I do not need to force sleep. I can allow it to arrive in its own time.
And now imagine a soft warm glow surrounding your bed. Like the gentle light of a bedside lamp, not bright, not demanding your attention. After quiet, comforting warm, imagine that warmth settling over your shoulders, moving slowly down your arm across your chest and through your stomach and all the way down to your feet. Simply allow yourself to rest.
Relax and unwind. And to help you, the days and nights to come, here in your three daily care into it.
One, let tomorrow wait. If a worry returns while you're lying in bed, gently remind yourself that you don't need to solve it tonight. If something genuinely needs remembering, you can write it down and leave it to morning. Two, give your phone a bedtime two, when you can.
Put your phone aside a little before you intend to sleep. Give your mind a chance to settle without another message, another headline or another thing to think about. Three, be kind to yourself. Tomorrow.
If tonight's sleep isn't perfect, try not to spend tomorrow criticizing yourself for it. A difficult night doesn't mean you failed. You can still approach your day gently. Now there's nothing else you need to do.
No more questions to answer. No more decisions to make. Just allow yourself to be here. Resting.
Breathing. Letting the day become a little more distant. If a worry returns, you can leave it to morning. And if sleep begins to arrive, there's nothing you need to do except to allow it.
You have done enough for today. You deserve this time to breath. And tomorrow can take care of itself for a little while. Good night my friend.
And in everything, be kind.