Calming Anxiety
I Think I'm Having a Panic Attack — A 10-Minute Meditation to Feel Calm Again
The script
Transcribed from the audio, so the odd word may be off. Tap any line while it plays to keep the words in step with Martin's voice.
If your heart just did something it wasn't supposed to do. If you're sat there right now thinking, "I'm having a panic attack. Stay with me for a moment." You don't have to make anything happen right now, not one thing.
You don't have to fix this feeling or explain it or even force it to go away. You just have to be here, with me, for a little while. And if anything about what you're feeling is new or sudden or genuinely doesn't feel like the usual pattern, it's always worth getting it checked over by someone who can look properly. But if this is the familiar, if this is the shape anxiety usually takes view, then let's spend a few minutes here together.
This is calming anxiety. I'm Martin, clinical hypnotherapist and form a paramedic for over 20 years. I've knelt beside a lot of frightened people in my time. And here's the one thing I can tell you for certain.
Fear on its own has never hurt anyone. It's loud, it's uncomfortable, but it isn't dangerous in the way it feels right now. If today is one of those days, Anchored is built for exactly this moment, somewhere to come back to. Any time this feeling shows up again.
Let's start with the breath. Nothing complicated. Just make the out breath a little longer than the in breath. That's the whole technique.
And if any particular count doesn't feel comfortable to you, forget the count altogether. Just breathe in whatever way feels manageable right now. Breathe in gently through the nose and let it out slowly through the mouth. A little longer than it came in.
And again in and out. Slow at this time if you can. And one more time with me. Breathe in and out.
However long feels just right for you. There is nothing to prove with this breath. You're not trying to fix your heart rate or force anything to happen. You're just giving your body one small steady signal.
I'm safe enough to breathe slowly. And here's something worth knowing about panic. A racing heart on its own is just a racing heart. But when we get frightened of it, we start watching it and the watching makes us even more frightened, which makes us watch it even harder.
It's a loop. It's not a fault in you. It's just a loop. But you can step outside of it, not by stopping every sensation in its track, but by not adding fear on top of what's already there.
Think of it like a wave. The postcard kind, but the real kind, the sort that lifts you clean off your feet in the sea for a second before it passes underneath you. A wave doesn't ask permission to rise. It just rises.
And here's the thing worth holding on to. Every single wave comes back down again. Everyone. You don't have to fight it on the way up.
You don't have to force it to stop early. You just have to let it move through you and trust the part of you that already knows is true. It always comes down. You are not the way.
You are the sea underneath it. Steady, holding it, still here long after the wave has gone. So notice what's underneath you right now. The chair, the bed, the floor, something solid, holding you.
Notice your feet. Notice your hands. Notice the air around you. Is it warm?
Is it cool? You don't have to do anything with any evidence. Just notice it. It's one small way of telling your mind.
I am here right now and right now. I am safe. So in this moment of safety, of reconnection, feel these words and allow them to allow them to be planned. I do not have to fight every sensation.
I can let this wave move through me. I do not have to know what happens next.
I am allowed to feel frightened without becoming frightened of the fear itself.
I can breathe gently and let myself settle.
I can be here one breath at a time.
And then once more, the one worth keeping, I can stay within this moment. Relax now. Let the tension evaporate from the very surface of your skin.
I do not have to fight every sensation. I can let this wave move through me. I do not have to know what happens next. I am allowed to feel frightened without becoming frightened of the fear itself.
I can breathe gently and let myself settle.
I can be here one breath at a time.
And before we greet the rest of the day, here are your three daily caring tips. One. Learn one simple breathing pattern while you are calm, so it is already familiar to you if anxiety rises. Two.
When you notice the very first sign of panic, try not to interpret it as a catastrophe straight away. Just notice it and nothing more. Three. After it passes, try not to spend the next few hours going back over every sensation, asking what if it happens again, let it be finished when it is finished.
In a moment, let's come back into the room. So bring your awareness to your fingers and toes. Wiggle them all. Notice the surface beneath you again.
Breathe in, hold, and as you exhale, roll the shoulders then stretch the arms out and when you are ready, let your eyes open. You don't have to feel completely calm yet. That is alright. You have given yourself a few minutes where you didn't have to fight or fix or predict what happens next.
And that truly is enough for today. If this feeling comes back later and it might, anchored will be there, the same voice ready whenever you need it. And within the app, there is the box breathing section. You can create your own perfect moment of breathing.
Follow it, listen to it. It is not AI, it is my voice, helping bring you back down today. I think I am having a panic attack, doesn't have to be the end of a sentence. It can become, I can stay with this moment.
So take care my friend. Smile often. Please do share this show with someone else, a friend, a colleague, who may need it as well. But to yourself and in everything.
Be kind.